My Love for My Jewish Friends and Family
Monday Motivation, Inspiration, and Love for Jewish Friends and Family

My first interaction with a Jewish girl was in elementary school. Her name was Autumn and her father was a member of Griffis Air Force Base in my hometown of Rome, NY. Since Rome was mostly made up of Italians, it was so interesting to meet other kids from different parts of the country and world when their families got transferred in for a short period of time. I celebrated Hanukkah for the first time with her family.

Fast forward to my senior year in college when one of my suitemates Sue was a Jewish girl from Long Island. We became instant friends and are still connected today. I didn’t know when I invited her to my wedding that she couldn’t come because it was on a Jewish holy day. I wasn’t aware enough but totally appreciated her dedication to her religion.

When I opened my company in 2005, one of the first women to join and support it was a Jewish woman named Chen living in Israel looking to sell her jewelry in New York City. Not knowing I wasn’t based in the city, she stayed involved 18 years later. I ordered some of her jewelry to support her. I connect with her often, especially the past few days making sure she is safe.

On August 10th of this year, I was blessed with a Jewish daughter Rachel who married my youngest son. A female rabbi performed a full Jewish wedding which was absolutely beautiful and meaningful. I called Rabbi Rachel Saphire after the wedding to thank her for making the ceremony so special.
When I see the images of women and men killed and taken hostages in Israel due to hatred, I can’t fathom it. I don’t claim to understand the politics of the region but all I know is what wonderful Jewish people, especially women, I have had in my life. My heart aches for them and their people.

Sitting next to Rachel’s aunt at her Bridal Shower, I told her Aunt Beverly I needed to learn more about being Jewish. As a Catholic, I only have studied my religion. Auntie Bev said, “Catholics and Jewish families are very similar in our love for each other and love of our religion.” I hugged her and thought what a gift to get to be part of a Jewish family through marriage now.
I hope anyone reading this will have empathy for what is happening in Israel and hug their Jewish friends and family a bit tighter today. Ask how you can help or support them. Love them for all that they are and never let go. We are all humans first and foremost born with compassionate and unbiased hearts.

